Please, Please Like Me.

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1. Approval

1.1. Do you care to much?

1.2. Will you please like me

1.3. accept me

1.4. affirm me?

2. 3 PROBLEMS PEOPLE PLEASERS BATTLE

2.1. You obsess about what others think

2.1.1. Do you like my...

2.1.2. Why didn't you respond...

2.1.3. The bubbles came up but you didn't respond

2.2. You are often overly sensitive to criticism

2.2.1. Fall apart

2.2.2. Hit back

2.2.3. Avoiding conflict

2.3. You have a hard time saying “no.”

2.3.1. Prov 29:25

2.3.2. mowqesh (mo-kashe'); a noose (for catching animals), a hook (for the nose). Str 4170

2.3.2.1. Bull with a ring

2.3.3. Prov 29:25

2.3.4. Trusting in God is what makes the difference

3. Becoming obsessed with what people think about you is the fastest way to forget about what God thinks about you

3.1. That’s why we want to have a different goal!

3.2. Aim for the approval of God NOT the approval of people

3.2.1. It is impossible to achieve the approval of people

3.3. It is a spiritual issue

3.4. Becoming obsessed with what people think about you is the fastest way to forget about what God thinks about you.

3.4.1. God has an opinion about you

3.4.2. We need a different goal

3.4.2.1. His will, purpose, glory

3.5. Gal 1:10

3.5.1. For Paul it was obvious

3.5.1.1. Beaten and left for dead

3.5.1.2. Shipwrecked

3.5.1.3. Imprisoned

3.5.2. Not so obvious for us

3.5.3. Look again at the last part of the verse

3.5.3.1. I would not be Christ's servant

3.5.3.2. To be a servant means replaced under

3.5.3.2.1. Can't be under the approval of others

3.5.3.2.2. Must be under the approval of Christ

3.6. The truth is we have a hook in our nose

4. FACTS ABOUT THE DISEASE TO PLEASE

4.1. People pleasing is a form of idolatry

4.1.1. More of SPIRITUAL problem than a RELATIONAL problem

4.1.2. Not just one of the 600, in the top 10

4.1.2.1. Anything more than God

4.1.2.2. He is a jealous God

4.1.2.2.1. He wants to be the highest source

4.1.3. John 12:42

4.1.4. John 12:43

4.1.4.1. Idolatry

4.1.4.2. Not just big stuff

4.1.4.2.1. Laughed at the joke

4.1.4.2.2. Told a little lie

4.1.4.2.3. We choose our behavior according to what they want not what God wants.

4.1.4.2.4. It hurts the heart of God because we care more about them than we do about Him.

4.2. The approval of God sets us free from the disease to please!

4.2.1. 1 Thes 2:4

4.2.2. We can’t please everyone—But—We can please God!

4.2.3. Because of what Christ did for us—We are forgiven—Changed!

4.2.4. If you are in Christ—GOD APPROVES OF YOU! All about grace.

5. God doesn’t just love you—He accepts you! He likes you!

5.1. He approves!

5.2. There is nothing you can do to to make him love you more

5.3. I am

5.3.1. John 1:12 I am God's child.

5.3.2. John 15:15 As a disciple, I am a friend of Jesus Christ.

5.3.3. Romans 5:1 I have been justified (declared righteous).

5.3.4. 1 Corinthians 6:17 I am united with the Lord, and I am one with Him in spirit.

5.3.5. 1 Corinthians 6:19-20 I have been bought with a price and I belong to God.

5.3.6. Romans 8:1-2 I am free from condemnation.

5.3.7. Romans 8:28 I am assured that God works for my good in all circumstances.

5.3.8. Romans 8:31-39 I am free from any condemnation brought against me and I cannot be separated from the love of God.

5.3.9. John 15:5 I am a branch of Jesus Christ, the true vine, and a channel of His life.

6. Series

6.1. Longing to be known

6.2. Today Money and stuff

6.3. Perfectionism

6.4. How to be comfortable

6.4.1. Next week

6.4.2. We all want to be comfortable

6.4.2.1. Impossible to pursue comfort and have faith in the same time

6.5. The need for approval

7. QR

8. Series

9. The Series

9.1. Fame, "you want to live forever?"

9.2. If I Just had a little more money

9.3. Perfectionism

9.4. Next Week - Please, Please, like me

9.5. Today - A life of ease

9.6. In Two Weeks

9.6.1. Promo video

9.6.2. Culture wants t remake him in their image